Celebrating a 65th Anniversary is an amazing achievement for a married couple and one that few couples achieve, sixty five years of marriage will involve a lot of love, commitment and luck.
The very traditional list doesn't go up to the 65th anniversary (it stops at the 60th) and so there is quite a difference of opinion on what the 65th symbol is!
Although you feel it must be something amazing.
Some lists state that your 65th wedding anniversary is celebrated with diamonds, which is also the traditional gift for your 60th, follow the link for lots of ideas for gifts for parents and grandparents.
Other lists have Star Sapphire, and this is on a number of lists.
This type of Sapphire is when the gem is displaying aster-ism, in other words it looks like there is a star in the stone, you can see this in the photograph.
They are very prized and wow if you could find one of those for your 65th that would be amazing.
Sapphire is also the 45th Anniversary symbol and there are lots of sapphire gift ideas in our 45th wedding anniversary section.
Star sapphires are also called the "Stone of Destiny" and they represent loyalty, faithfulness and honesty. Perfect qualities for someone who has helped create a wonderful marriage.
They also represent the blue color of the sky, again a representation for a person's higher self.
With all of the meaning behind the symbol it can be hard to think how this becomes a wonderful and thoughtful gift for your parents or grandparents and the key here is to celebrate them both and the years of their marriage.
You can use the symbols and colors of the Star Sapphire and Diamonds to find the best gift for them.
Here we have lots of popular gift ideas to help you choose.
A 65th Anniversary needs a great toast and maybe even a speech!
It definitely needs a great glass of fizz to celebrate with.
This Traditional Anniversary vase can be engraved with your own Anniversary message and will look wonderful filled with a bouquet of their favorite flowers.
These Sapphire Blue Love pillowcases are a bit of fun and really comfy to sleep on!
Their love story is wonderful and showcasing all of their important dates is a really thoughtful way to celebrate it.
This sapphire blue canvas is personalized with their names and the important dates for them;
You can also use this canvas as a guestbook if you are planning a party to celebrate as there is lots of space for everyone to add their Anniversary wishes.
When you have been married for sixty five years you have a huge number of memories.
And this Anniversary book is a lovely way to share their memories with all of you.
The book is personalized and made up of the front page from their Wedding Day and also headlines from the year they were married.
Just think of all the stories they will be able to add.
If they love to do a jigsaw puzzle this one would be perfect for their 65th Anniversary as it takes them back to the day they met.
The jigsaw puzzle will be centered on the place that they met, which has a heart shaped piece.
This lovely wooden photo box makes a great Anniversary gift.
Not only can you show all of the best photos, you can also add a surprise inside the box . There is plenty of space for their favorite candy or a little homemade gift.
The top of the box is personalized with their names,
If you are looking for a photo frame that fits with the theme of the 65th Anniversary this photo frame with it's crystal eding does just that.
Engraved with their names and also their Wedding date.
Celebrating a milestone Anniversary like the 65th seems to come with a lot of pressure as you want it to be just right.
It is a huge landmark in a couple's lives and a big memorable celebration for the rest of the family too.
Your 65th wedding anniversary is a big celebration, if you live in the UK you could receive a letter from the Queen and in the States from the president.
Both will need some planning and you will need to complete a form to apply for your letter from the Queen or if you live in Australia, New Zealand or Canada then you will need to apply to the Queen's representative, more information is here.
In the United States you can apply via your State Senator, here is a full list of Senators for you to apply to. Be warned there seems to be a bit of a wait as some messages are taking months to come through. They ask that you apply 6 weeks in advance of the date but it might be an idea to start sooner than that.
However long an Anniversary message takes it would still be a big wow, so don't worry if it doesn't get there in time.
Your 65th Anniversary couple will be probably even more pleased to receive a card from you than someone important, although I am sure they will love that too.
But what do you write in your own card?
Obviously start with their names or their names to you.
You may not have known the couple for the last sixty five years but you can add your own shared history instead.
PS. Don't forget to sign the card!