How would we decorate for a surprise 30th anniversary party that will be outside?

by Lauren
(Illinois)

We are having the party in the back yard, and in the basement with the bar. What could we use to decorate without it looking cheap or tacky? My mom is very neat and worried about what others think, so her house is going to have to look perfect. My dad is more laid back. Please help!!!

Hi Lauren

Surprise anniversary parties are brilliant and it's good to take into account your parents wishes, this way they will love the day as well.

A 30th wedding anniversary is traditionally celebrated with pearls and a great way to incorporate that into your theme is to use balloons. Now I know you said not tacky and balloons can have that kind of reputation but you can buy pearl colored balloons that are more round than the usual. Don't go mad with balloons, just a few dotted about.

To compliment the pearl theme you can have ivory colored paper lanterns, have these hung up around the back yard. You can also use garden lights to give the outdoors a sparkle!

If you have the space for tables and chairs then you can cover the tables with linen cloths and then have clear glass vases with cut flowers. Beautiful roses would look great in any vase, or you could use your mother's favorite flowers instead.

Keep the decorations simple and classy and don't go mad with any of the items, you will have a party that your parents will be delighted with.

Good luck!