How to ask for money for my parent's anniversary trip to Hawaii

by Melissa
(MA)

My parents have dreamed of going to Hawaii on their 25th wedding anniversary as do many couples out there. Their plan was to renew their vows in Hawaii somewhere but unfortentely with today's economy, they are unable to do so. They both have been the best parents to me and I just want to give them back with planning a surprise anniversary party for their 25th which is this October, 2009. Last Christmas, I had a hawaiian theme playing in their bedroom where I set the room to look like a hawaiian island. A couple people in my family and friends helped raise 700.00 towards Hawaii but even that isnt enough to take care of their flights. I need help wondering if it is too tacky to have a hawaiian mystery box going around or should I do that secretly with the guests that way my parents don't know that we are trying to raise more money?

Hi Melissa
I think it's lovely that you want to help your parents get to Hawaii for their 25th wedding anniversary and I don't think it would be tacky to ask friends and family for contributions if it is what they want.

Find out how much it would cost for the holiday that they would like, you could then ask guests for vouchers for a particular travel agent or for cash. Make sure you don't push it too much and just say that you have started an anniversary fund for them if they would like to contribute.

You may find that with the current economic climate you will find some vacation bargains which would mean your money will go further.

Good luck with your parent's anniversary present.

Suz